I began reading a book called Hayley Hobson’s Hip Guide to Creating Your Sexy And Abundant Life and I would have sworn at some points that I was reading my own writing! Hayley talks no nonsense, cuts to the point and says what needs to be said, no matter the reality! Hayley come save me! The holidays are coming, work is piling up, presents need purchased and family gatherings are about to begin, are you really ready for what life is about to dish out or are you going to be on the dish? Hayley Hobson’s Hip Guide to Creating Your Sexy And Abundant Life will arm you with what you need to make those changes that will pull you into the new you!
On an average day, I wake up ahead of all the kids, grab my cup of coffee, wipe up the cat’s litter area, run the vacuum, start a load of laundry, pack 3 lunches, and get everyone out the door, while clearing out text messages, emails and beginning my day. I grab a few phone calls to those people that I know are already up and functioning as well in the world of work and by 9am my day is well underway. By 12 Noon, I am ready for a break, but there are only a few more hours until the kids come home, so if I can make a few more calls, get a bit more laundry done or run an errand while I take a call I move it a bit more. HAYLEY Help me! I am drowning in my own world! Hayley Hobson has already been there done that and her straight forward approach to how to handle the stress of life is painstakingly blunt!
It is true that life, marriage, kids, jobs all create stress that can wreak havoc and chaos on health and so often Dr.’s can’t solve the problems. Not everything is something that can be solved with medicine and unless you really get your life together, you will continue to suffer.
Take for example relationships that are dysfunctional like marriages. When you initially get married, you hope that it is to the right person. You are in love things are great and then suddenly the family interrupts your life. How do you deal with a family that never accepts you? Do you take them head on or just bare with them and their general b.s.? Haley Hobson will dish the dirt on what to do with family as she worked her way through the turmoils of distance in relationship with her inlaws! If it is not a problem with an inlaw and it is a fight you might have with your own family learn to do three things to help you through all situations so that your behavior is not regrettable and reprehensible: 1) Zip IT!, 2) 24 Hour Rule 3) Breathe (p. 62) Goodness Hayley where were you a few years ago when I was growing and learning?
When Haley talks about her job at E Entertainment sucking I think about a job I accepted and hated. If I had read this book before I stayed at the job, I probably would not have stayed at the job! Hayley puts it all in perspective. In my case: The procedure in the office was Jabbering only via an inner office email system, you were not allowed to go talk to others unless you Jabbered them first. Jabber this I left! Life is too short for all the jabberish that happens electronically and 90% of it is unnecessary. Texts, emails and so many of the social apps just open us up to more stress. Power down and power up from the gifts you have before you, kids, husband and family(at least the ones you get along with, we are all stuck with some crap family members, that you have to suck up!— we all do)! Hayley relays her less than ‘fun’ with family time right out there and you can feel the pain and anguish through her description, but you can also see the light as this is one strong WOMAN making changes with every step she takes.
Hayley Hobson allows nothing to stand in the way of her being her and she teaches you to be you in her very real and profound book. You have to be true to yourself before you can ‘be’ anything for others. I was entertained page by page as I read this cover to cover in an evening!( I know I should have gone to sleep but the book is a keeper!)
If you are looking for a way to become you again, solidify what used to be your marriage and clean up relationships, Hayley will get you on track by cutting out all the b.s that you let stand in the way! I want to meet Hayley and learn more!