The spookiest thing about the upcoming fall holidays is the way that it seems a time when couples become more disconnected. Why? Dusk is earlier, and our bodies want to sleep sooner, rather than later. Fall parenting schedules also are tough too. In fact, life gets so busy it drains you and the intimacy as well as the passion right out of your life!
Keeping it creative and fun between couples seems to take a backseat to sleeping. Do you want to try something new to spark that passion? It is so important that couples take the time to keep connected and to remain a unified team during one of the most Spooky seasons and during a very fun holiday.
Lavishly live intimacy out loud, using these 3 Tips For Fall Passionate Date Nights. Learn how to craft time for each other during some very busy weeks. You can have a spook-tacularly passionate time throughout the season, which will be playful, and definitely brew up some time as a couple!
3 Tips For Fall Passionate Date Nights-
What do you call a hot dog with nothing inside it? A “hollow-weenie!” This joke makes me laugh over and over and I hope no one finds a ‘hollow-weenie’ or you won’t have a great passionate date night, lol!
What’s the Deal With Intimacy? Fall Passionate Date Nights
It is Fall and everything about the season is about spice, right? Spiced Apple Cider, Spiced Pumpkin Pie, and let’s not forget the sweetest of them all – spiced up passion and intimate times with our partners! Remember though, not everything spicy happens in a bedroom.
This whole article is not about a full moon, it’s about the howling and screeching that can take place without one! You just gotta know how to light the cauldron and get it to boil. Flame-on time and don’t forget it’s all about lighting it up together!
You can make this as spiced-up as you want (the more intimate the better) or you can use the recipe for Fall passion in small doses.
There are ways to entice, spice-up, and create the perfect ambiance for passion during the month of spookiness! Remember, this can be as simple as a special glance between each other, a note, date night out, candles in a room, or a thought-provoking memory.
Each of these will not only welcome a date night but also remind us of things we have tried before and really enjoyed.
Don’t forget, when you meet each other’s needs intimately, you become stronger together. Communication is only one component, but there are a lot of ways to meet each other’s needs that go far beyond words. Intimacy is key to sustaining great relationships and great when you are with the right partner and it’s mutually consented too!
When Does The Intimacy Start?
Intimacy starts with the idea. As you know, one person in the relationship is always thinking about the NEXT moment when making love, or engaging in a passionate time is going to happen. So let’s put it this way, you always have a 50/50 chance of
Date night can begin anytime. For many, it begins when the sun sets and all the little ghosts and goblins have gone back into their room tombs. However, for others, it’s as soon as your wizard, warlock, sorcerer, witch, sorceress, etc. arrive home.
The point is, whether you have kids or not, intimacy is for all partnered couples and there is no particular time that it happens, it just happens. You don’t need an excuse to have bump and grind, you just need to do it.
(1) Scared & Up Close – Conquering Crazy Rushes of Feelings Together – Fall Passionate Date Nights
Did you happen to notice the slew of haunted houses around you? What about haunted farms and zombie walks? There are so many different options. Some of the haunted houses are really scary and ticketing makes it hard to get in. Get your tickets in advance and plan a trip to the one everyone talks about.
For those that have kids, get a sitter and go, or put the kids at your parents’ home. Of course, if you don’t have kids, that’s gonna work for you too, it’s easier because the whole focus can be on just going out and then returning home.
If you don’t like haunted houses, it’s a perfect way to conquer your fear, but only as long are you are together. Being scared opens up a little bit of adrenaline and a lot of hand-holding. This leads to fear-conquering together, when no one else but the ghouls saw how you both reacted.
The togetherness of this sort can definitely require an intimate release afterward. After you experience the haunted house together, and you’ve experienced the trickery, head on back to your home as it is time for some serious romping into spookily intense intimacy.
(2) It all starts with a Spicy Text – Fall Passionate Date Nights
We live on our smartphones, so use it to your advantage. You already text back and forth, just add a little ‘smuttiness’ to your texting and ‘hello spark!’
Remember passion can’t happen unless there is communication, and how better to communicate intimacy than through a Text to your partner. One note on this sparky ‘text’: Just make sure you TEXT the right person.
We’ve all made the infamous mistake of texting the WRONG ‘name’ on our list, so double check before you press the SEND text! Remember, what is a spicy text to me, may not be to you, change it up to talk in your own voice, this is just, me!
Corny (or Candy Corny, lol) Is How to Start, Well for some of us!
Here is just one I have tried. I never know what the return text is going to be, so I held my breath because I really wanted to be able to screenshot it! Imagine this, it came back perfect for this post! Dodged a bullet here, ha!
Lone Star Witch Seeks Wizard
Lone Star Witch Says: “I got Yours if you have got Mine“
And then the answer, which definitely led me to Giggles or cackles because who knew what he was going to say back!
The Picture Text
Alternatively, you might have heard this one before, but it’s good! You might be sitting with your spouse, or partner, who suddenly pulls out there phone. That’s not abnormal but then he might say, “Want to see a picture of the girl I am bumping gourds with tonight?”
Of course, that picture better be you, lol! But it is a great idea, GUYS! Definitely no guessing where his mind is, and what is going to happen! So get there fast, cause you want it to good for both of you!
What You Need To Know – The Truth About Passion
A very wise man of the cloth once lectured a group meeting I attended about intimacy. His words were profound and never left my mind! “There is no such thing as unplanned intimacy, one of you will always be thinking about it and planning it. The unplanned part is your partner’s response, and there within lies the key to intimacy!”
I bungled with that thought over and over, and it is true, the one who is thinking is planning, is hoping that the answer to the want of a passionate time, spicy moments, and intimacy will occur. The key to spicing it up are a few tricks I will provide you, and of course a coupon.
The Love Potion Options For Fall Passionate Date Nights
The Love Potion is easy to make. Craft a Pomegranate Libation because the Pomegranate is the perfect Halloween Deep Purple and the Orange wedge, of course, created more of that potion perfect ambiance.
Take a look! We all have our favorite drinks and the colors made me happy on this one, so the witch’s brew is now set and waiting for the wizard to appear! Again, I am not suggesting intoxication, but a little of this love potion just might be what the ‘Wizard’ ordered.
Whip Up Some Other Witches Brew – Fabulous Owl Droppings Sangria
Yes, adults enjoy Halloween as much as kids. As a matter of fact, adults get the added component of special ‘brews’ to actually add a whole new level to the meaning of PARTY! So really this beverage is quite easy to make.
2 Cups of Blueberry Juice
2 Cups of CHILLED Red Spiced Wine**
1/4 Cointreau Orange Liqueur (I’m partial to this one)
Cubed lemon and orange pieces.
1 1/2 cups of Fresh Blueberries
2 C Sprite (or any ‘off-brand’ lemon-lime soda)
**(you can also just take a sweeter red wine, and add mulling spice, to a bottle of wine and do not boil – remove from medium heat and return to bottle for use later.)
Add blueberry juice, red spiced wine, and Cointreau Orange Liqueur. Next add in blueberries, oranges, and lemons. Now chill until it is time to serve this. When you are ready to serve, add in the soda. You can add ice and you can also, just pour by the glass.
By the glass, you simply fill the glass with 1/3 soda and the rest the refrigerated Famous Owl Droppings Sangria mixture. That’s all there is to it!
Creating A Yours+Mine Time: The Halloween Treat Basket
Now the next key to this little bit of Spooky Fun is the presentation. You can keep it as simple as you like or you can put it where the sparks might fly. This is all about sparking interest and presentation. After all, that’s is some of the fun.
You might even want to snap a picture over to show your setup. Look at the grimace on this the little pumpkin it is so conniving it just created the perfect message!
The little setup offers a bit of ignition as to where the night is going. (Snapchat it or IG Message it!) These scarecrows come with a basket that you can fill with toys, protection, and some Yours + Mine, maybe some chocolate, or chocolate syrup, you got the idea! No need to purchase this all separate, you can grab it here, I put it in a storefront for you!
Also, it sends a hint to even the densest lol! In other words, let’s not have one person on a different page about where tonight is going. There’s nothing like a flame retardant moment, where one is into the ‘let’s get it on mode’ and the other is not! Right? Totally smolders the possible brewing effect!
Fall Passionate Date Nights
You gotta keep the date nights and intimacy moving or you will be bored. Relationships thrive when you have fun moments like this, and really, its more about the simple notes that led up to this and then the sensuality that follows!
Don’t forget to think about safety with intimacy, as not everyone wants kids at present and of course, there are also sexually transmitted diseases to consider, if you are not in a committed relationship! I suggest either concealed protection like these or maybe something that glows in the dark!
Having a healthy love life brings us together so that we can grow both individually and together. Date night can lead to better sexual intimacy and better emotional intimacy creating a better-connected relationship.
Use Halloween and FALL as a way to create a new spin on Passionate Date Nights. Try something new and grow intimately closer together. It’s all fun, while the witches and wizards come together, lol!
Are you now ready to FALL (pun intended) into a passionate night, creating a healthy love life, while finding pleasure in a shared experience? The delivery is all about the communication(Text), The Potion(drinks) and of course the presentation from haunted houses to baskets and bedrooms.
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