The culture of taboo and forbidden discussions has truly taken to the limelight over the last few years. There were subjects that women would only talk about to their BFF’s and even then they would skirt on issues and skimp on details.
Did you ever notice that when one article on the internet starts a light trend more articles appear? It would seem as if the vehicle of open discussion is really a written OPEN discussion and off-limit subjects suddenly become main street banter that transitions from an article read to words spent. Funny how I noted this because there are a few women I have recently met up with at gatherings I attend and I can tell you that NO subject is off limits.
Funny how I noted this because there are a few women I have recently met up with at gatherings I attend and I can tell you that NO subject is off limits. Before I knew it I was uncovering some key habits that incredibly confident women share. Today’s post is about lavishly living life out loud and discussing our deep and rich lives that make us women. Do you have the 4 daily habits of incredibly confident women?
TAKING THE FORBIDDEN AND OPENING IT UP
Today’s discussion is sponsored by PR on behalf of Smile Makers and because I believe in opening up discussions that are out of our comfort zone to level the playing field. Bring on the knowledge and open up female empowerment!
A glass of wine, a few interruptions via text and our group just started chit chatting about our lives, our partners, our families and ME time. It’s funny how our subjects jumped from life to each of our own needs but suddenly the conversation strongly collided into formerly ‘tab00’ topics.
Our common denominator is the fact that we are all moms. Our discussion began with our kids and harried lives and then turned to a discussion about ‘leaks’ and exercise and yoga pants, and then we began discussing our intimate moments (or for some the lack thereof) and how grandly life has changed.
We sat there till the wee hours of the night, openly discussion subjects that ranged from bladder leakage to our time, and each of these ladies should have a gold star because they OWN who they are and the are very confident. There are no forbidden topics in life, but the moment you don’t discuss something it suddenly becomes a buried subject and becomes known as stuff that should stay in the depths.
Certainly, those disallowed topics that might come to your mind are those daily habits that allow these ladies to excel in life because they live them out loud, from mother-in-law issues to doormat situations. So what are those 4 daily habits of incredibly confident women that allow them to rid discussion of previously banned discussion?
4 Daily Habits of Incredibly Confident Women
First, it was about self-reflection. Taking just 5 minutes a day and reflecting on what we did well, what we could have done better and not dwelling on the negative. Rather each lady described an epic fail as a positive turnout because they actually could visualize how to self-correct what they did wrong. (losing it over spilled milk, missing a meeting, etc) Each reflection allows them a chance at a do-over, and while we can’t reclaim time we can certainly change the outcome of the next thing that ‘creeps up’ and change our reaction!
Second on the list was the Doormat effect. Each of the ladies sets limits on what they can and can not do. This is not to say that each of them did not have goals, but rather to say that each day needs to be balanced and there is a time to say, “NO!” By saying NO to certain asks each day, it freed them up to actually do what needed to be done, accomplish the tasks at hand, rather than stockpiling more and not getting it accomplished. No defeat here, all success.
Thirdly, each of us discussed our partners, our personal intimacy quest and rather than treating it like a JOB that had to be done to keep things positive in our relationships we all focused on what we needed from the outcome. It is here that the forbidden was dropped and we all vibrated with discussion (oh yes PUN Intended).
We all agreed that we were not experts on relationships, we are growing into them, but we all crave sleep, good moods, self-confidence and good sex lives. When you get into this discussion you will soon find out it is all about the orgasm, and how to get there by self-love. VIBRATORS bring vibrance. Truly you can not expect your partner to know what you want if you don’t know first, so pleasuring yourself is you taking control of that intimacy.
Spark up the intimacy and own the moments that allow you to trigger pleasure, happiness, and satisfaction. Anyone shaking their head should be shaking it for YES I want one of these SMILEMAKERS because I deserve control of what makes me feel good, and I am not afraid to take it on. There is total POWER in confidence and you will be elated! You can get a SmileMaker of your own. Vibrators are for women who want to take care of themselves, discover their bodies, and let the energy of life flow within their beautiful selves. After all, sexuality is a natural part of life, right?
It’s time to normalize female sexuality and self-love, and empower women, and stop hiding the subject in the ‘forbidden closet’ after all it is the same as talking about peeing your pants after sneezing, it’s just a fact of life, but everyone does not embrace it.
These smiles tell you all that you need to know, that girl talk, and Smile Makers brighten the day!
Do You Have 4 Daily Habits Of Incredibly Confident Women ?
You know who you are, reflect on that daily. Discuss the uncomfortable, open up to the day that went all wrong, so you can iron out the wrinkles for the next time a day like this collides with your schedule. Life never takes the straight path, so remember to look for a reason to smile. Don’t neglect yourself. Put yourself up front and let the line of everything else get ready for you to conquer it.
Grin, smile big and become the Smile Maker because you have it all going on. You do have the 4 habits of incredibly confident women, so lavishly live life out loud and embrace the empowered you.